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Cozy Up This Cuffing Season With The Love List!
 | As the days get shorter and the weather gets chillier, it's officially that magic time of the year: Cuffing Season! The season where flings fade, and the desire to cozy up with your person takes center stage. Slow mornings, movie nights by the fire, weekend getaways wrapped in blankets – and all of that is better when shared with someone you love. This year, instead of swiping endlessly or settling for another mediocre date, let The Love List do the work for you! |
Less Swiping, More Sparks: Dating That Feels Human Again
When you join The Love List, you are introduced to New England’s most eligible singles because our team ensures all participants at our events are vetted and truly looking for love. We also have a strict no ghosting policy; disappearing acts aren’t in our playbook!
We prioritize face-to-face connection. That’s a part of our whole brand! Connection and community. Even if you don’t meet that special person at one event, we are sure you will make a long-lasting friend!
Singles Of The Week…
Tremain, 30, is a corporate security supervisor from New Haven, CT, with a true passion for exploration! Whether he’s traveling to new places or discovering the next great restaurant, he’s always up for an adventure 🏞️! Family means everything to him — he’s a proud dad who loves sports and is ready to find his queen to share life’s beautiful moments with. Interested in him? Reply to this email, and we’ll introduce you! |  |
 | Melissa, 40, is a senior marketing director from Hartford, CT! She’s full of life, always up for a good laugh, and loves making the most of every moment. Whether she’s out paddle boarding or taking a peaceful walk, she enjoys being active outdoors — but she’s just as happy savoring a beautiful dining experience, indoors or out 😉 Melissa is looking for someone who is grounded and emotionally mature. Interested in her? Reply to this email, and we’ll introduce you! |
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How The Love List works:
You sign up here! Making sure to fill out the questions to the best of your ability, so we can match you as well as we can at an event.
The Love List then analyzes your profile and finds a match for you (based off of other vetted profiles)
All of New England can apply: we currently only have events for the next 2 months in Connecticut, but people submitting from all over.
After you fill out your profile, you can RSVP to upcoming events under “events” on jointhelovelist.com, where you’re immediately added to a waitlist, and will be notified if you’re accepted into the event. We encourage you to keep the date open in the hopes we can find a match for you at the event.
If your submission is denied for that event, it means we haven’t found the right person for you (yet!) You will be refunded your deposit, and we encourage you to RSVP ASAP to the next upcoming event.
Before each event, you’ll receive arrival information, details for the event rundown, and everything else you need to know.
Our events have 20-30 people, within a 5-10 year age range, so you can mingle, meet new folks, and ideally, leave with the perfect match.
After the in-person event, everyone is emailed a form where they can pick the top 3 people they liked the most during the event.
If there’s a mutual connection, you’ll get a text between both people, and you can take it from there!
Want to be a founding member of The Love List?
Recommend three friends to receive a free ticket to one of our events OR to receive a free matchmaking session!
Here’s how to participate!
Share the link to the event you’re RSVP’ed for, and you’ll get $10 off your next event.
Bonus perk: Recommend three friends to The Love List, just send us an email at [email protected] with whom you’ve referred (or reply to this!) and we’ll get you taken care of!
We’re so excited about the community we’re building, and all of your support!
Cuffing season doesn’t have to include settling. It can be about intention, authenticity, and enjoying the feeling of true love. This season, we want to get you there! Join The Love List and prepare to meet the love of your life.
4+ couples have been created through The Love List and our events. Are you ready to be next?
 Sunday, October 19th, 2025
| This intimate mixer is curated for individuals ages 40-65+ who are serious about finding meaningful connections. This isn’t just another day out— it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference! We have a strong variety of people in this age range who are divorced, have kids, and are looking to get off of the apps! |
 October 25, 2025
| Step into an unforgettable evening designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in central Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated for individuals ages around 27–40 who are serious about finding meaningful connections. Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships. |
 November 15, 2025
| Another chance for all singles 21 + to meet a meaningful match before the end of cuffing season! Once again, although this event is held in Connecticut, it is available to everyone across the New England area |
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XO, Alexa & The Love List team
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