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Alexa Curtis
October 01, 2025
Dating Feels Broken — We're Fixing It with Real Connections
 | We know you’re curious what’s next… and we’re working so hard to give you every you deserve in the world of love! We have 2 events coming up in November and though we’re pausing (for just a little bit!) on our one-on-one matchmaking, we want to tell you how to get involved as soon as possible. We value community, real connection, and romance. We believe in dating that feels human. |
So, what is The Love List doing different?
At The Love List, we ensure the people you have access to are only the best of the best, and the people you actually have a chance of having a connection with. No settling; simply opportunity and compatibility from New England’s most eligible, relationship-ready singles.
The Love List gets you off the phone and in person to meet a match! There is no hiding behind a screen and contact information isn’t shared until a true connection is made ❤️
The Love List Process:
You sign up here! Making sure to fill out the questions to the best of your ability, so we can match you as well as we can at an event.
The Love List then analyzes your profile and finds a match for you (based off of other vetted profiles)
All of New England can apply: we currently only have events for the next 2 months in Connecticut, but people submitting from all over.
After you fill out your profile, you can RSVP to upcoming events under “events” on jointhelovelist.com, where you’re immediately added to a waitlist, and will be notified if you’re accepted into the event. We encourage you to keep the date open in the hopes we can find a match for you at the event.
If your submission is denied for that event, it means we haven’t found the right person for you (yet!) You will be refunded your deposit, and we encourage you to RSVP ASAP to the next upcoming event.
Before each event, you’ll receive arrival information, details for the event rundown, and everything else you need to know.
Our events have 20-30 people, within a 5-10 year age range, so you can mingle, meet new folks, and ideally, leave with the perfect match.
After the in-person event, everyone is emailed a form where they can pick the top 3 people they liked the most during the event.
If there’s a mutual connection, you’ll get a text between both people, and you can take it from there!
We know the dating world can often feel overwhelming and impersonal but The Love List was created to bring the magic back to dating! True love is still out there and its our job to bring you closer to the love you dream of.
UPCOMING LOVE LIST EVENTS:
 Sunday, October 19th, 2025
| This intimate mixer is curated for individuals ages 40-65+ who are serious about finding meaningful connections. This isn’t just another day out— it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference! We have a strong variety of people in this age range who are divorced, have kids, and are looking to get off of the apps! |
 October 25, 2025
| Step into an unforgettable evening designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in central Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated for individuals ages 27–40 who are serious about finding meaningful connections. Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships. |
 November 15, 2025
| Another chance for all singles 21 + to meet a meaningful match before the end of cuffing season! Once again, although this event is held in Connecticut, it is available to everyone across the New England area |
P.S. 4+ couples have come out of one-on-one matchmaking at The Love List and our events. Can you believe it?
Share this email with your single friends + family!
XO, Alexa & The Love List team
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